Pornography is a real-life struggle for many people, including Christians.
In fact, roughly 70% of Christian men acknowledge they grapple with unwanted sexual behavior. And about 20% of women share the same battle. For a lot of them, sexual brokenness is more than a bad habit — it’s an addiction.
This was the case for Nick Stumbo. He was the pastor of a growing church and a youth cross-country coach in his community. But he had a secret life. He dabbled for more than a decade in pornography and soon discovered it was no longer just a “high school habit” he could quit.
When his secret was revealed, Nick’s wife, Michelle, was rocked with feelings of betrayal and inadequacy. She felt like she couldn’t tell anyone. Over time, those feelings of betrayal grew, eventually reaching a breaking point at which Michelle was ready to leave the marriage.
Fortunately, through counseling, Nick and Michelle found healing and experienced firsthand how accountability could help Nick overcome what he couldn’t defeat on his own.
Has pornography impacted you or someone you love? At Focus on the Family, we want to encourage you with the knowledge that there is hope and a path forward. We don’t want you to feel isolated and ashamed. We’re here to come alongside you with the tools and resources necessary to help you fight this battle, without judgment or embarrassment. And if you’re experiencing hurt because of someone else’s addiction, we want to encourage you and show you where you can find support.
That’s why we’ve created a 6-part video series featuring Nick and his wife, Michelle. Please take some time to watch their story. I hope you’ll be encouraged through this video series and discover that no matter how long you or your spouse have been struggling with this addiction, sexual brokenness can be restored. God can help you break free from the bonds of pornography.
Here are the topics in the series:
Video #1 – “The Shame Factor”
Video #2 – “Sexual Addiction and a Caged Bird”
Video #3 – “Biblical Warning Signs of Sexual Sin”
Video #4 – “The Gift of Pain from God”
Video #5 – “The Public Me and the Private Me”
Video #6 – “Three Life-Changing Questions”
When you sign up for this free video series, you’ll receive a link in your inbox with access to all 6 episodes to watch at your own convenience. You’ll also find extra resources that explore why pornography is so addictive, offer guidance on restoring broken relationships, and explain where to get help from a Christian counselor.
This series can change your life and your relationships. I hope you’ll take advantage of it.
May God bless you,
Jim Daly
President
Focus on the Family
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